Archive for September, 2008
What is a Strategy?
Sometimes, when clients hear, “What is your strategy?”, there is a deafening silence on the other end of the line. Not only do they have no strategy, they have no concept of the meaning of the word. So what is a strategy and how do you develop one?
The American Heritage College Dictionary’s first definition of […]
A Life of “Drahma”: No Drama Queens Need Apply! A Nine Step Solution
Do you have a life full of drama and upset? Do you experience a constant stream of upsetting issues…lost jobs, frequent housing moves, conflict-ridden relationships, tumultuous romances? Do you have financial problems and massive credit card debt? Are you worried about losing your home, going bankrupt, or ruining your credit? Does it feel like you […]
They Are Telling You Who They Are: An Answer to Being Disappointed in Relationships
Have you ever had the experience of being mistreated by a fellow human being, causing you to become sad or depressed about it? Has someone ever lied to you or cheated you, and you have afterwards felt a general distrust of everyone you meet? Has someone deceived you, and you then had difficulty believing you […]
Is There Something Great You’re Here to Do? Use Strategies to Create It!
Do you have a strong feeling that you have a life purpose to fulfill? Do you have an inner urge to accomplish something specific with your life? Do you have these feelings, but have no idea what specific thing that might be? Does it seem that you are here to do something great? Do you […]
My History is No Longer My Identity: A Solution to a Painful Childhood
Did you have an abusive childhood? As a child, were you the victim of sexual, verbal, or physical abuse? Were your earliest years lived amid chaos, conflict, substance abuse, neglect, poverty, or crime? Were these things such a part of your youngest years that they have become your identity? Do you find that tears come […]
The Story I Made Up: How We Let Our Fantasies Steal Happiness From Our Lives
Have you ever gotten furious at someone, causing a big scene about how wronged you were, only to find out it was some trivial misunderstanding? Have you ever accused another of some transgression, only to discover later it was a miscommunication? Have you ever believed that someone had done something terrible to you, and then […]
Discovering Life Purpose: Some Thoughts
Discovering Life Purpose is one of the most perplexing endeavors in human life…if you have no idea what your life purpose is. It can feel very furstrating, a bit like being the only one at the party who doesn’t get a joke. Here are some ideas on the topic:
1. Consider the possibility that Life Purpose may […]
Do You Live Your Life As an Amateur?
Do you live your life like an amateur or like a pro? An amateur never figures out what his/her life goals are. An amateur never takes time to discover their values, much less to embody and live them. An amateur never makes their goals into the #1 priority focusing on them daily and putting them […]
